Not a good day

We were going to have Chili tonight, and I wanted some cheese to go on top of it.  The main and closest store that I buy that kind of cheese at, did not have any last time I was there.  I decided to go further downtown to Carefore.  I don't know a good way to take a bus down there, so I usually take a taxi. 

I decided to take Liam with me.  It is his week (each kid has 1 week a month that is "their week).  I really don't  get to spend one-on-one time with Liam that often.  I sometimes worry about him being the "middle child". 

Liam gets carsick sometimes.  He has since he was just a toddler.  Usually we can calm him down and help him feel better....but not always.  Today was a - not always day. 

Yep! He threw up in a taxi.  Not good.  The driver was not happy at all.  He wanted to know why he didn't throw up out the window.  He fussed at me and a Liam.  Seriously!? He is 7. 

I wanted to get out of the cab right then, but I could not think of how to tell the driver.  He just kept driving us to the store. When we got there,  I let Liam out and the guy started to yell at me.  I tried to pay him extra money.  The fare was 25, and I gave him 55.  But he kept yelling at me.  I did not know what he wanted.  I tried to say sorry.  At one point he said something that I did not understand... I guess most of what he said, I did not understand.  I asked him,"what" in Chinese, he just mumbled, I said what again, and then he just stared at me.  It was a little scary. 

 There happened to be a young guy standing by, and I asked him if he understood.  Thankfully, he could speak a little English.  He said that the driver wanted me to clean it up. 
So I took out the mat and dumped it ,and then wiped it off the best I could with tissues.  I also wiped down the seat cover.

All taxis have a white seat cover covering all the seats.  It can be taken off and washed easily.  I wonder who decided to make it white!
There were a few people starting to gather around at this point.  The guy started to fuss at me again.  The guy translating said something about him not being able to do business.  He wanted me to pay him more.  He wanted 44 more on top of the charge for the fare.   I paid it gladly and went into the building as quickly as I could.  I sat down in McDonald's to try to compose myself.  I called Jon and cried and told him the story.  (When I mentioned that to Liam later, he did not know that I had cried.  Liam and Eryn have said that they have never seen me cry.)

I understand the driver being upset.  And I really wanted to make things right, but  he was really ugly about it.  While I was wiping the seat, I heard the translator guy ask Liam something.  Liam answered, We are from America and Tennessee.  I threw up in the taxi and now that guy keeps fussing at my mamma.  That just broke my heart. 

It was frustrating because we could not understand each other.  I was embarrassed and worried for Liam.  Did I mention that it was cold and spitting rain?

I have been studying Chinese all semester, but it doesn't seem to stick in high stress situations.

We had to take a taxi home, and Liam started to feel sick again.  It was really warm in that cab.  We got the driver to roll down the window, and then Liam stuck his head out the window.  When he started feeling really bad, I got him to stop.  We stopped about 3 blocks from home and walked the rest of the way.  I really did not want to have a repeat performance.

I am not sure when I will get in a taxi with Liam again!  I am very thankful that the young guy was standing by the road when we pulled up.  I am also very thankful that Liam is not really sick.

A chilly morning

Last Sunday evening, we were relaxing in the living room. It was about 9:30 and the kids were already in bed. Our American friend Benjamin was staying the night. We decided to watch a video and then the lights went out. We have plenty of windows and light outside so it was not too dark. We checked around and the electricity was not out in the building, just in our apartment. Jon looked at the breaker box and the breaker was pretty warm, but it was not thrown. After trying to get the electricity to come back on for a few minutes we realized that we were going to be out of power all night. It was too late to call anyone. The bedroom heaters and bed heaters had been on for a little while, so it was not as bad as it could have been. We gave Benjamin some extra blankets for the couch and went to bed. Our bed was not toasty warm, but it was not freezing either. We snuggled down in the covers and went to sleep. The kids did not even notice anything was wrong until the next morning. We had hot tea and oatmeal for breakfast (we have a gas stove). It was quite chilly. We could even see our breath inside! We called Margaret (a Chinese sister) and she called someone to come look at it for us.

 

"Right here is the problem" Jon is on the phone with Margaret who was our translator. This guy left to go buy the part and I took pics of what was wrong.

ooooh, I don't think that is supposed to look like that! The electrician said that the breaker was really too small. He bought one a little bigger and replaced it for us.

Including going to buy the part, he was probably finished in about an hour. The cost for this repair, parts and labor? 80 yuan! That is about $15.

We were very thankful to have electricity that evening!

Apple Butter

I promised that I would share one of our "Purple mouse" recipes.  We made this Saturday night.  We made Apple butter.  First we peeled, cored and sliced the apples.  We bought this contraption last year when we were planning on making applesauce.  We have not made any apple sauce this year.  It makes things go much faster. 

 Each of the kids got a chance to help.

We had a crock pot full of apples.  Then I added the sugar and spices and mixed it all up. 

You cook the apples on high for an hour. 

This is the apples after about an hour.  Then you let them cook on low for 9-11 hours.  I guess most people do this overnight.  We started the apples in the late afternoon, so they had been cooking several hours by bed time.  I was afraid to let them cook overnight, so I turned my crock pot to the "keep warm" setting.

In the morning they looked like this.  They are a little wet, so you should let them cook with the top off the crock pot for about an hour. 

We run our apple butter through the blender to make it all smooth.

Viola! Apple butter.  We ate some for breakfast (while it was still warm) on some toasted cranberry bread I baked.  Yum yum!

I found this recipe on allrecipes.com:

Apple Butter

5 1/2 lbs apples peeled, cored and chopped

4 Cups of sugar (this is way too much! 

 I used about 1/2 cup of white sugar and a little less than one cup of brown sugar, you could use even less)

2 tsp cinnamon

1/4 tsp. cloves

1/4 tsp salt

Cook  in crock pot on high for 1 hour.  Reduce to lo for 9-11 hours.  Uncover and cook 1 hr longer.  Mix to smooth.

Purple mouse

This is Purple mouse.  In case you can't remember, the words "purple mouse" are on the cover of this photo album three times!  It is pretty common to find totally random English words or phrases on notebooks and photo albums ( and lots of other things). This Purple mouse is a very important item in our house.  Really it is just a small photo album, but we use it for our recipe book. 

It is filled with recipes that I use nearly every week. 

Cooking in China can be very tricky.  There are many ingredients we do not have and some things we just can't do here.  I do have an oven, but it is really just a large toaster oven.  We have learned to make lots of things from scratch and sometimes we just have to be creative.  I do get a feeling of satisfaction when I make things that are tasty for my family, 

When we moved to China two and a half years ago (can you believe it has been that long?) we had very limited space to bring all we would need.  I did not bring a recipe book.  I did however, copy some of my favorite recipes on some 3 x 5 index cards and tuck them in my suitcase.  Over the years I have added to my stash with recipes I have found online or other places.  I love allrecipes.com.  I can look up specific recipes or recipes that use certain ingredients.  Other people review the recipes and add comments and from that, I can get ideas of substitutions that work for the recipe.  I found a great recipe for some cookies that don't use butter, or shortening.  I made 4 batches of them this holiday season. 
(I'll share the recipe another time).  Some of the recipes in Purple Mouse are cornbread, dinner rolls, pizza crust, different kinds of cookies, banana bread, boiled custard, apple butter, pancake syrup, dressing,potato soup, and muffins.
When we find a recipe, we try it out and if it meets our approval, it goes into Purple mouse. 

I guess we could call this book our recipe book, but it is more fun to call it Purple mouse.  Next blog, I will share a recipe we have in Purple mouse.

pajama day!

Some times you just need a pajama day. Every once and a while we plan a pajama day.  This is a day where we stay in our pj,s all day long!  Last Friday we had an unplanned pajama day.  Thursday afternoon we got a package from Poppa and Granny.  They sent the kids matching warm pj's.  It is a Christmas tradition.  Friday morning after the kids had dressed, they decided that they needed to try the pj's on "to make sure they fit".  Once they got them on, they did not want to take them off!

In the package there were also some comics.  The kids spent at least 5 quiet minutes looking at the comics.  It was very peaceful!

I did make Hallie put on her regular clothes to go to Chinese class, but when she got home, she put her pj's back on.  We had the kids put on long johns on ( some older matching pj's) under their pj's and we went out to eat.  We had to walk to the restaurant.

 

The kids thought it was great fun.  No one blinked an eye at what the kids were wearing. You see it is not uncommon to see people out in their pj's.  We see it all times of the day.  We once asked a Chinese friend about this.  He never thought about it being weird at all. We see it most often on the weekend, but it can be at any time.   See?

When in Rome...  The kids are looking forward to their next pajama day!

Thanksgiving

We had planned to have our big Thanksgiving celebration the Saturday after Thanksgiving.  Thanksgiving is not a Chinese holiday and most people had to work.  I had originally planned on making some chicken and dressing for our family.  I ended up inviting 3 other people.  We dined on chicken and dressing mashed potatoes, gravy, sweet potatoes, green beans, corn, rolls, and pineapple upside-down cake.  It was delicious (if I do say so myself).  Afterwards we played charades and laughed until our sides hurt.

Saturday we had our BIG celebration.

 We got a turkey.

We had so much food!  Heather brought black-eyed peas!  BLACK-EYED PEAS!!! We were very excited.  They were so yummy.  Everything was so good. 

We all ate as much as we could.  Some of us were miserable.  It was a  nice time to be with Americans and eat some good Western food.  After everyone left and took some food away, we packed the rest up and put it away.  Our refrigerator was stuffed.
For supper that night, Jon made some sandwiches with left-over turkey and rolls.  I had a little taste but was really still too full to eat. 
We ate left-overs for at least 3 full meals.  There are a few things still lurking in the fridge, but  finally our fridge is back to normal.
We are truly blessed!

She baked a cake!

Recently we have been talking about the fact that Hallie needs to learn to cook.  She loves to help me in the kitchen.  I started thinking about what she could cook by herself.  I thought that she could try her hand at a cake.  She has helped and watched me enough that it was not that difficult for her.  It was hard for me not to jump in and help her too much. A few times, I just left the kitchen and told her to call me if she needed help.

She did wonderful!   She made a pineapple upside-down cake (from scratch).  We served this cake for dessert on Thanksgiving day.

Beautiful and yummy!  Way to go Hallie!

Hallie's 10!

November 9th was Hallie's 10th birthday.  It is really hard to believe that she is 10.  It seems like just yesterday she was a baby.  We gave her a cell phone for her birthday this year.  She was thrilled!  I actually wrapped the empty box and we hid the phone behind the pillows on the couch.  We were going to call it when she opened the present.  However, Jon had entered her number in his phone incorrectly.  It would have been funny to have the phone ring.  Oh well.  She was still very excited!  Now she has a new way to tattle on her brother and sister.  We went out with out the kids (the ayi stayed with them) and she texted us to tell us something the younger ones had done.

Hallie picked this butterfly cake out of a decorating book that we have here.  She really liked it, and enjoyed helping decorate it.

The weekend after her birthday, she had a slumber party.  She invited her BFF Bliss and another American, Michaela.  Bliss lives near us.  Michaela is from the Chicago area but lives here in Hangzhou.  She goes to Bliss's school and Hallie met her at the Halloween party.  They were instant friends. 

The girls watched movies, painted their nails, ate more cake, and played on the computer.  They also stayed up until past 4:30!  I know because their giggling woke me up again at 4:30.  Poor Bliss had to get up and leave a little past 7.

They had a blast!!

venting

First of all, let me say that I am happy living in China. I feel this is where I am supposed to be right now. I feel very strongly that we were called here and God worked things out to get here. I feel a sense of purpose and I do love it here. But it is not always easy living in China. Some days are harder than others. but then again, I could say the same of living in the US. When I have a bad day here, I can always blame it on living in China. But really it could just be a bad day.



When we moved to China, someone told us that there seems to be a bigger culture shock that happens the third year. Many people go home after their third year. Guess what, this is our third year. We went into this year aware of this theory. But we felt energized by our visit home. We were ready to get back to work and get our routine going. We were really excited about the year.



We are not as excited anymore. Sometimes I feel a little guilty about that. Good things are happening with the WORK. We are engaging new people, we have started some new studies, old friends are branching out. Things are happening the way they are supposed to. But I am still having a hard time shaking the blahs.



This semester has been really hard on Jon. His work load has increased and work stress is bad. That always spills over a little into to home. So we all feel his stress.



I have had a hard time with dental work this semester too. It has been painful and frustrating.



Jon's grandmother passed away a few weeks ago. That was really hard. It was hard because we know we are going to miss her. Grieving is weird when you are away. You grieve for the deceased but also that you can't be with the rest of the family. You feel a little left out. My grandmother died in January. I grieved some then, but had another period of grieving when I went home and visited family.



This time of the year is hard on us too. I sometimes think that Halloween and Thanksgiving are as hard or harder than Christmas.



So the question is, is this that terrible "culture shock period" that we have heard about? Or is this just life?



Teachers have bad semesters, and bad years. I could have dental problems in the USA. MawMaw would have died if were were living in Henderson or in Hangzhou.



So what do I do? I just have to keep looking at the positives, and our blessings. And there are a lot of those!



I also enjoy baking and being domestic. If things start getting to me, I can straighten up the living room, or bake some cookies. That makes me feel a little better and maybe slightly more peaceful. If that doesn't work, chocolate usually helps.



So keep us in your prayers, and send us some chocolate!

**I actually wrote this back at the beginning of November. We are still somewhat stressed. This is just a bad semester. With the holidays coming up, we have fresh bouts of homesickness. I also feel a little guilty that my mood is so terrible. But, the semester is almost over. Hopefully we can have a good break and have a better semester next year. In the mean time, keep those prayers coming!

Warriors

In 1974, some farmers near Xi'an were digging some wells and found some pottery fragments and bronze weapons. What followed was probably one of the largest archaeological finds ever.

People knew that Emperor Qun ShiHuang Di the first emperor of China's mausoleum was nearby, but no one knew that more than 1,000 terracotta warriors and horses guarded it. The statues were buried for more than 2000 years.

Emperor Qun is credited for uniting China. He conquered the six other states that existed in ancient China. He implemented a standardized system of weights and measurements for the country. He is built the Great Wall. Well, actually he connected several smaller walls that were already there. He died in 210 BC. If you like history, you should look him up. He was and interesting character.

These terracotta warriors are all different. They have different hair styles and they say that no two faces are alike.

At one time all of these statues were painted. You can see a little paint on a few of them.

They are still unearthing relics from this active archaeological site. There are three main pits where the warriors, horses, and weapons were found.

We know where Emperor's tomb is but it has not yet been unearthed (that is another story).

This is the farmer that first discovered the warriors while digging a well. Now he signs autographs and poses for pictures.

After this picture was taken, he shook their hands.

Eryn was too shy to take this picture, but she did say that we should say "xie xie" (thank you) for finding the warriors.

*Before we took this trip the kids kept saying that we were going to see the "teriyaki warriors".